Yesterday when I came home from doing errands my Little Princess greeted me with tears of frustrations when she showed my her scores from her 3rd quarter Exam. She was so worried all she could say was I'm sorry Mommy repeatedly for not getting goid grades. And when hubby came home from work the more disappointed and scared she was, crying more openly. Instead of getting angry and scolding her, i gave her a Big Hug to assure her she is loved no matter what. We also agreed to cut down play time and to study harder so we can get better grades next time.
It breaks our heart to see our daughter in tears ... you could feel her pain in not being able to deliver what is expected. You can feel the low self esteem and disappointment in her , and to think she's just 8 years old and kids her age should be carefree and having fun .
It is never easy to see your little one crying... as my moms would only say, if i could do things for you and take the pai away.... but little girls need to cry too they would learn from their mistakes and frustrations in life .... they need to shed a tear or two so mommies can give them a big hug and let them know they are loved, no matter what .
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