danggle's journey

Beginning of the TRALDJ's Success...

2012-02-11T04:35:00.001-08:00

Enjoyed a wonderful Business Meeting w/ HighSchool friends over sushi and Maki.. Here' s to the future success of our Business Venture.. :)

The Best Valentine Greeting

2012-02-08T09:16:00.000-08:00

This really made my Day when my Princess Julia handed me the Best Valentine Card/Greeting she made during her Bridge Class @ Canopy Center... She was all smiles and proud when she raised up her hand to give me her Master Piece...

To my Princess Julia... Mommy loves you soooo muchhhh!

My 39th Birthday

2012-02-08T09:07:00.000-08:00

I had a week long celebration with family and friends for my 39th Bday which ended last night with super close friends.

My Celebrations ( TM Ryan, TRALDJ, Hubby and Julia, Sulits and Dadders' Angels) were not grand or "bonggacious" , just quality time w/ family and friends who have made the past years memorable and fun. If it weren't for these people behind me, I wouldn't have survived my 39 years with flying colors....

Again, to all of you who make my Journey in LIfe meaningful... SALAMAT !!!!

My Princess Julia

2012-01-04T17:53:00.000-08:00

This is my Driving Force in Life for the past six (6) years... I am so thankful for having a wonderful Princess in My Life.. I am hoping and praying that she'll grow up a Beautiful and Loving Person inside and Out....

My 2012 Goals

2012-01-04T08:05:00.000-08:00

For this year I want to be realistic and practical ... Set goals which are achievable so let me start by enumerating them.

1. Shed off 50 pounds safely by regularly going to the gym and watch my food intake.
2. Have a savings of P100k from my salary.
3. Go to Mass as often as possible.
4. Set up my own business.
5. Spend Quality time with Julia

Tough act but can be achieved with the right attitude and discipline.

Welcome 2012

2012-01-04T07:15:00.000-08:00

The past year has been productive and fruitful careerwise as i took my writing job seriously. Although it was diffcult to juggle both jobs, i am grateful and lucky to be given a chance to do both.

It was also a year of change and improvement for our Princess Julia as she starts a new school at Bright Tree. We are fortunate to have teachers who show genuine concern for Our dear daughter and continue to guide her towards a brighter future.

Friends also played an important role in the past year. Without them. i could've have survived the year triumphantly... To Ate Paz, Aga, Net, Kuya Son and Daders for always being there... To Traldj especially Leng for always there to help, to my kapatid, Bel, who is always just a phone call away ready to help... To Ayi, Honey, Dinds, Shugs, Cris and CDG family my writing buddies.

And to hubby and Julia, my driving force and reason for everything.

I know 2012 would be a challenging year ahead but i am confident that we can pass that with flying colors because of the Almighty's Guidance and Love... To you O Lord, Thank you ... Love you

September More...

2011-10-08T23:03:00.000-07:00

The Month of September came and went     without much   frills..  Highlight was I finally    got my  much awaited paycheck from writing gig which   solved most of my financial obligations..   I was able to   keep something for My Princess Julia   for her   birthday months from now.

Writing job   was a steady pace..    and hopefully stays that way for   the meantime,  but i would definitely welcome all the writing jobs that will come my way.

Now as October   is almost a quarter into full swing, I'm hoping it'll be a better month. Although our dear "ache" left us after almost   6 years,   i welcome the time   spending with my Little Princess who is clinging into my arms more now, asking me not to go to work   anymore and just to spend more with her... experiencing   seperation anxiety after losing her yaya...     But i ma confident she'll   overcome this and will get used to her new Ate Joan.

I'm looking forward to the Christmas Holidays as well, as "Ber" months have kicked in already...    and i 'll try my best to have a wonderful Holidays Celebration for My Princess  who looks forward to all the gifts   santa brings her...

So   join me as we count the days before Christmas time..   :)

My Binondo Girl

2011-08-22T21:46:00.000-07:00

I have been away from the writing world for more than five (5) years and was only able to make a comeback last quarter of 2010 via teleserye Sabel and Mutya as contributing Writer and Creatve Development Group Member . However, in the TV Writing World, one can only be classified as a full-pledge writer if you can write a full script with your by-line...

And so, after almost a year of comeback , i had a chance of writing my one week script for My Binondo Girl... it was an experience... and familiar one as i write the night away, barely sleeping ... I hope i will be able to pull it off and survive the 13 week writing job with flying colors ...

FRIENDS ALWAYS TO THE RESCUE

2011-08-16T17:39:00.000-07:00

There's a running joke among my ABS Friends that I'm the ultimate JOLOGS Queen because anywhere they go they would meet someone who knows/has connection with me.... May it be in UK, Dubai, workplace, provinces, etc.... Although admittedly, my memory sometimes fail me , cant really say i can remember all the connections or affiliations but never the less, it still amazes me how i have connected with these people all over the world.

Same reason why I feel so Blessed for having such wonderful friends despite the years and distances. Friends who i can always turn to or lean on when things get rough.... Lately, things were not as smooth sailing due to ou 3 year legal battle with hubby's former employer. That was really a major turning point in our lives because it scraped not only our savings but as well as tested patience and faith. And when things are way beyond my control, I am lucky enough to have friends who are always there to "rescue me"... Friends who are just a text/chat/email/phonecall away, friends who always listen and more importantly, doesnt keep tab only to "make sumbat" later on.

I have no idea what i was in my past life (which i dont normally believe in hehehe) to deserve such blessings like this.. I might have been a good soul to have such wonderful friends. And I know i cant thank them enough for all the help, so the most i can do is to be a friend to others as well the best way i can and apply the "Pay it Forward" Theory (where you do a good deed for someone without any payment in return) .This way, you are able to extend your ring of friendship and who knows, make a difference in making this world a better place .... :)

CONNECTING W/ MY PANGGA ...

2011-08-10T01:02:00.001-07:00

I had a long talk with my college buddy whom i fondly call "Pangga" after 20 years of without communication... Thanks to modern technology, we were able to catch up and it seems that the 20 years silence/gap never existed... We were chatting like way back our college days.

Although I was glad to reconnect with my best buddy, how i wish there's something more i can do to comfort him, and take away the pain he is feeling right now because there's nothing more difficult than seeing the people you care about go through painful situation. Just like a doting mom, how you wish you can do everything to spare your child from all the pains and struggles in life....

But as a friend all you can do is listen , hold your friend's hand (which i wish i could but my pangga's hundreds of thousands of miles away) and say a prayer that he'll overcome this storm and emerge as a better person.....

For now i'm just here, just a text / phonecall away for my best pal.

OUR KINDERGARTEN TEACHER

2011-08-09T18:02:00.001-07:00

For the past year, hubby and I had a problem looking for the best kindergarten school for Our Little Princess Julia who got traumatized in her nursery class last year. So from them on she despised school . Last summer we enrolled her in 2 summer schools just to get her acquainted with the classroom environment. The first summer school was quite costly for a 8-session class but at least my Princess got warmed up at the 6th session hehehe

Finally, we came across Bright Tree Kinder Care center. From day 1 Julia liked the atmosphere and enjoyed going to school. So when regular classes came, getting ready for school was no longer a gruelling task in the morning.

However, it was not a bed of roses for us, for Julia wouldnt engage in school activities. Yes she enjoyed going to school but wont participate in singing/dancing /circle time session or play with her classmates . This alarmed her Teacher Doreen (mid-40's, who's been teaching for 15 years now) who took time out to talk to us after 2 weeks of classes. From then on, she is totally hands on on Julia's progress, going on an extra-mile to help us find a developmental pedia to evaluate Julia. Also we would receive little notes indicating her progress. Not only that, Julia came home the other day with a writing book to work on at her own pace for practice so Julia can familiarize herself in holding a pen ,more so write so she wont be left behind. This act of gesture really touched me because rarely do you meet someone who would go out of their way to show concern for your daughter.

A decade and a half ago, I read Leo Buscaglia's book on how important the The Things We Learn From Kindergarten ... For adults, these little things may be trivial but if you think about it, the little lessons in Kindergarten are The Lessons that get instilled in our system/personality, Lessons that we bring to our adulthood.

This is the same reason why I appreciate Teacher Doreen in Our life, knowing that there's a Kindergarten Teacher who guides Julia to believe in herself and come out of her shell, and be the best and beautiful person as she can be.

Truly, we are blessed and grateful for having a wonderful Kindergarten Teacher.

Trying to Hang On...

2011-08-04T17:46:00.000-07:00

Why is it that just when you feel the blues, little problems start coming your way.... For the past month I've been praying for the release of our much awaited paycheck... although all the pay for the past 2 months will be retrocredited, you still have to face the bills and obligations on your hands, to top it all, car broke down this morning... hahaha

I am hoping and praying all these problems would go away so i can relax and enjoy the day .... Simple wish but difficult to attain in times like this....

Rainy Tuesday Still ....

2011-08-01T21:34:00.001-07:00

I have to admit, i was happy the Big Boss Answered my prayer last night when classes were suspended this morning... that meant i had extra time to sleep with my princess and enjoy the whole morning just bumming around after a toxic week .

And that's what we exactly did... just bumming / hamming around in front of the tv and computer in our jammies till half past noon... :)

Another Rainy Morning .. Time to Relax and Dream

2011-07-26T20:18:00.000-07:00

Spending this rainy Wednesday morning in front of the computer, while my little Princess is busy with her crayons and coloring book... Its mornings like this that makes motherhood special. In awhile i'll be off to another meeting and will surely miss this bonding time with my Princess.

I sometimes dream that someday i can just stay home and just write, have the time in my hands , do the things i love to do and guide My Princess while growing up and of course find time to put up my dream coffee shop from the workroom in my own house.

I know its still a long way to go... but who knows 2 or 3 years from now, all these will come true....

Reading Along.... and finding your Dreams

2011-07-18T05:55:00.000-07:00

I started reading some entries to Soulfood by Bo Sanchez as boosters before i start writing... His words of wisdom really can uplift one's spirit and feel good about life despite the hardships. This week he Talked about surrendering One's Dreams to God in Bo.Sanchez.Ph ... Ironically i was thinking about My Pasta-Cart Dream this afternoon, full of excitement, i was telling hubby how i envisioned this dream of mine...

So today I pray and surrender this Dream to the Big Boss... and I am confident sometime soon, this Dream will soon become a reality....

To end, let me borrow Bro Bo's official signature... May your dreams Come True!

Justice Finally Served

2011-07-14T05:31:00.000-07:00

After three (3) years fighting head on, we finally had the taste of sweet victory when we received thru post decision of NLRC Appeal . My hands were shaking as I read the 10 page decision, and tears almost fell when the Commission finaly declared that Hubby was illegally terminated by his former employers and were asked to pay all backwages and unpaid benefits. Aside from the monetary reward, what made us happy was the feeling that all the hard work, pain, stress and tears in that three year legal battle was worth it. At last we were vindicated and Justice was Served !

After a Decade... Here's the Sulits

2011-07-09T06:09:00.000-07:00

After a decade, we were finally complete when my brother Thomas came home from Canada. It was a fun filled vacation at bora even if I was only able to join them a night (most of my siblings went home to Manila the day afte we arrived)....

Although Julia and I were not able to enjoy the vacation due to bad weather but at least we were able to spend a night w/ the whole family...

Until the next reunion in 2012 !!!

Sick Again

2011-07-09T06:05:00.000-07:00

Just saw my pulmonologist today who advised me to rest for 3-5 days again due to flu and asthma.. so I'm under house arrest again...

I'm thinking of using this time to reflect and sort things out... hopefully it will be a productive forced vacation ..

CDG .. My New Writing Family

2011-06-12T04:23:00.001-07:00

Almost a month ago I finally had the chance to join Creative Dev Group with new and passionate writers ... The first few minutes was nerve-wrecking for me because its a whole new group, that they've been working /bonded together for a couple of weeks now and to top it all i think i'm the oldest in the group (older than our captain, direk lino) ... but eventually , when the ideas started pouring in, we found ourselves in the same level chatting and brainstorming the hours away. Now , almost 4 weeks after, here i am doing my first major deadline, getting ready to pitch (but that's a different story to write) trying to gather my thoughts and put them into writing.

Looking now at my new writing family, I couldnt help but smile as it seems that i have come into full circle... you see a decade ago, i was the newbie trying to find my way around the writing world with Tita A as my mentor and guide... Now i found myself doing the same role, guiding new writers and sharing best practices, and more than anything, forming friendships as we go along the way.

Sorting out and Starting Anew

2011-05-23T18:50:00.000-07:00

Here I am, trying to sort out things in my life and try to be in control of things to make life in a better perspective.... in the past decade I've put some things aside, to the point of loosing "myself" in this journey called life. Now i'd like to start by putting things in the right perspective and put "myself" on top of the list.... I've realized that INDEED YOU HAVE TO LOVE YOURSELF FIRST BEFORE ANYTHING AND ANYONE ELSE so you can love others and get the love and respect you deserve.

Let me start by writing this blog and sipping my second cup of coffee ......

MUTEE .. My new Companion

2011-04-24T05:46:00.001-07:00

This is my new "companion" a Coby Kyros Internet Tablet where i can do emails and read my scripts while on the go... but look who could get her hands off of my mutee....

End of April

2011-04-24T05:40:00.000-07:00

Stuck in this blah-blah state... you know there's a lot to do but you dont feel like doing anything, instead you just want to bum around in front of the computer....

April came and about to leave with not much frills... just the same stuff day in and out... hope May will be a better and brighter month ahead.

APRIL NOW

2011-03-31T19:51:00.000-07:00

How time flies so fast... its now April, 4th Month of the year. Hope it'll be a better month for everybody.... Summer's here .. Time to relax and enjoy ! Hope I can do the same.

March .... Hoping to be a Better Month

2011-03-10T05:33:00.000-08:00

I am hoping that the 3rd month of the year will be a better month but i'm still keeping my fingers crossed and praying a lot... you see, after I got sick and then my Princess Julia, its now hubby who is down and was adv to rest for 2 weeks ... Its going to be a tough month ahead but i'm still optimistic that we'll surpass this month with flying colors !!!!

With prayers and strong faith , things will be better soon....

A Tough February

2011-02-24T08:27:00.000-08:00

The Love Month proved to be a challenging one for me and I'm hoping it'll end soon quietly... February is supposed to be my month, having been born on the 4th day, plus hearts day fell on this month as well. However, as early as the first few days of Feb i was again having asthma attacks and took me two whole weeks to recover.... And just when i thought everything was back to normal, my Little Princess Julia was inflicted w/ pnuemonia and was confined for 6 days in Capitol Med Ctr. I am just happy, we are back home after almost a week of stay in the said hospital.

We have three days to go before this month ends and I am confident that the worse is over and that My family and I survived with flying colors.... Time to get back on our feet and start anew.

Let me end this post with a prayer of Thanks to the Big Boss above, for always being there for me and my family no matter what... Thanks to my brothers who are always there as well, to Kuya Gie, Caloy and Rey who never grew tired of assisting their li'l sis... and to my dear freinds, Daders, Ate Paz and Agatha who i can always turn to when things go wrong... SALAMAT, SALAMAT, SALAMAT !!!

New Year, New Opportunies,... New Beginnings

2011-01-07T06:57:00.000-08:00

2011 brings a certain feeling of hope and excitement.... Although I know there are a lot of financial obligations I have to settle, I am still confident that this will be a start of a better journey ahead.

2010 .. The Year That Was...

2010-12-30T20:31:00.000-08:00

Year 2010 brought a Lot of Memories and Lessons that go with it. There are a Lot of things I am thankful for (all the good and "not so good" stuff )and as I sit infront of my computer and scribble down my thoughts for the year that passed, Let me thank the Good Lord Above who never grow tired of Loving and Blessing me and my family despite my shortcomings ... Thank You as well to ALL My Friends who never left my side and who are just a txt/call away whenever I needed help (and mind you, I did call and txted them several times for help) and lastly to the SULIT brothers who were always there for their Little Sis... SALAMAT !!!

FR2 (Food Review): Kangaroo Jack

2010-12-30T19:53:00.000-08:00

Had a chance to have dinner for the first time @ Kangaroo Jack a few nights ago after the Christmas Rush... Although the place was okay, food was a little bit bland (we had mozarella cheese sticks, cream of mushroom soup, baby back ribs & grilled chicken and pesto(no pix, sorry)) for our taste buds. Hubby and I glad we tried KJ so next time we know what resto's to visit and/or avoid...

SUPERB DINNER @ GILLIGANS !

2010-12-14T01:57:00.001-08:00

The family had an impromptu dinner last night @ Gilligan's Trinoma after going to the doctor . As usual, we ordered our favorite sisig, chicken and sinigang na hipon for Julia ... It was truly a superb dinner for all of us !

FOOD REVIEW : Pizza Hut's Carbonara

2010-12-14T01:45:00.000-08:00

Since I've been cooking pasta for a couple of years now, i try my best to stay away from ordering my "specialty" from different restos so i wouldnt get disappointed....... dont get me wrong, i dont mean to brag, its just that if you know how to cook and you know how much the ingredients cost, it is easier to know if you are being short changed or if you're getting your money's worth.

Take for example Pizza Hut's Combo meal w/ Carbonara as the main course... for just P99 you get a bowl of cream of mushroom soup, a plate of pasta and ice tea... the soup was okay, a perfect tummy filler for the hunger stomach, but the pasta was a disappointment because it felt like eating pasta soaked in creamy evap..... You would need a lot of parmessan cheese, salt and chili pepper to balance off the taste....

JUSTICE FOR THE VIZCONDES

2010-12-14T00:56:00.000-08:00

I am deeply saddened and couldnt help but be affected by the ruling of Supreme Court Acquitting Hubert Webb and Company... for the past decade I have been following this case religiously and my heart goes to Mr Lauro Vizconde , who tried his best to remain steady and calm throughout this ordeal. Loosing his loved ones in one night is something you'll never want to happen...but having the murderers be acquitted after a decade is like killing the man over and over again...

I honestly think money and connections played a big role in turning over the previous ruling of the lower courts. I just hope and pray these people who played a role in making this unjust decision will be able to sleep tonight and wake up in the morning and can still hold their heads up high.

Let me end this entry by saying a special prayer for Mr Vizconde, that although it seems he lost this fight, to me He will always be the Big Guy I'll look up to, fighting tooth and nail for justice to be served to his Loved ones.... No amount of millions or connections can top that !

Shouting Match But Englightenment After...

2010-11-21T03:11:00.000-08:00

A couple of hours ago, Hubby and I had a "little arguement that eventually lead to a mini shouting match inside the family car " (we cant do it in our little apartment otherwise the whole compound will hear about it ) ... the heated exchange of words continued on as we were doing our grocery and until we arrived at home.. But after letting out the tension and a couple of tears, things began to mellow down and we started to talk and learned to iron out our differences. Although the main reason of our shouting match is still unresolved, but at least now we have a different perspective of solving things.

I remember reading an Article a few days ago by Bo Sanchez about a fight he and his wife had some years back. It was a shouting match as well that ended in tears , both threatening to go on their separate ways.... A familiar line that couples say as they exchange angry words. But later on, when cooler heads prevail we take back all the hurtful words and learn to forgive, love again and never imagined that we even considered of going on separate ways as an option.

I Have to Get Better !

2010-11-17T05:38:00.000-08:00

Yesterday I went to my Pulmonologist (2nd time in less than a week) because of the asthma attacks that's been bothering me for a couple of days now. So after waiting for almost 3 hours for my turn, the Doctor had no choice but to prescribed an inhaler and painkillers for my headaches, and rest for a couple days more. To make matters worse, said new medicines were so expensive that left me a couple of thousands poorer. I never thought asthma meds can be that expensive. I was shocked and stunned, and walked home like a zombie, mentally computing how to adjust the household budget because the unexpected expense. It was almost dark when I got home and found Hubby and Little Julia napping the afternoon away .

What brought me back to my senses was when I watched my Little Julia sleeping soundly in his Daddy's arms. For a couple of minutes, I just sat and watch my precious one and right then and there, I realized I have to get well for my Little one. No matter how expensive the my medicines are, I know I have to take them so I can be 100% for my Little Girl. How can i guide her in this journey called life if Mommy is not in the pink of health.

So starting today, I've decided to get better and with the help of my expensive meds, i know i can kick out this stubborn asthma out of my system!

Decided to Shift Gears

2010-11-15T02:33:00.000-08:00

For the past couple of days I've been asking for signs weather to switch networks... First sign came last week when we had problems with renumeration.... then came the dreams involving colleagues and that finally made the difference. So finally, after nights of contemplating I've decided to shift gears as we enter the last quarter of the year. It'll be a big switch for me and as my "kapatid" would say its not a bed of roses, i know i'll be in good hands because i have friends waiting for me at the other side of the fence.

DOWN W/ ASTHMA

2010-11-14T00:54:00.000-08:00

I was finally bitten by the Asthma bug..... Well you see my brothers got it but I never thought I'd follow their footsteps because for one, I dont smoke and I rarely drink nowadays. But as the saying goes, if its in the blood, its in the blood... I just hope my Little Princess will not get it because it no joke coughing your lungs out with matching headache.... or sleeping in a sitting position because once you lay down on your back, you'll soon feel the attack coming.

I'm looking forward that my breathing will be back to normal again soon so i can sleep soundly at night :)

A day of Card and \ Palm Reading

2010-10-28T07:08:00.000-07:00

Today marks a new chapter in hubby's career as he launched his card and palm reading skills in the office when he was commissioned to participate in a pre-halloween activity. it was a tiring and draining day for him as he read dozens and dozens of agents for eight (8) straight hours. Glad that even though it drained his energies, he enjoyed the experience.

Hopefully this will open new doors for him and will broaden his horrizon while our little Princess and I stay on the sidelines, cheering him on.

Wala Lang ....

2010-10-22T06:39:00.001-07:00

Do you sometimes get the feeling that you're in not going anywhere.... not doing anything....not moving, but not growing....

This Rainy Friday gives me the Blues... couldnt help but feel trapped at a dead end, and no where to go but back track a little and do a detour... sometimes you're so excited that things are finally coming true but at the last minute, an obstacle will come up to test my patience and determination.... Sadly, most often than not, i give in and get stuck in this "Wala Lang " and get the habbit of going back and think about things that "could've been" - a deadly game of regret ....The good thing about games and is even if you loose , you can always start anew and give your best shot to win the next round.

And from "Wala Lang" state... one can always bounce back and try to make something out of Nothing.....

JULIA'S FIRST CHILDREN'S PARTY .....

2010-10-17T06:42:00.000-07:00

Last Saturday Julia attended her first Official Children's Party and it took a while for her to warm up (as always) Party was almost over when she started to stroll around happily , but nevertheless, we had fun . Glad that My Friend Tina and hubby Baret was happy with how the party came out to be despite the short prep.

And to our Little Cleona, may you grow up as beautiful, warm, wise and talented as your Mom and Dad:)

Families to the Rescue

2010-10-07T07:40:00.000-07:00

Whenever i'm in financial crisis, my brother are always to the rescue.... willing to lend without any questions asked... I know this is what FAMILY is all about... i'm just lucky that i can always turn to them no matter what.

Hopefully when all is well, i can return the favor to them anytime. And hopefully that will be soon !!!!

Some "ME" Time

2010-09-29T03:02:00.000-07:00

Hubby and Li'l Princess is taking a short nap and here i am, all by myself trying to finish off camp rock 2 movie and blogging away....Moments like these are precious.. when you only have an hour or two for yourself, trying to pamper yourself with whatever resources available ( its dvd and internet this afternn) .... There's still the household budget to attend to and a full-script to read but for the meantime, i'm putting things on hold to give me a moment to recharge and enjoy the day.

Afternoon of Good Food and Good chicka

2010-09-21T04:07:00.000-07:00

The Other day, my friend Kaye and I decided to unwind with an afternoon of good Food and Good Chicka at Nena's Bibingka in Cubao/Puregold. It was a spur of the moment thing, but it was worth it as we made chika about family and friends.

My usual favorite is a plateful of Okay and Tokwa't baboy .... While the kakanin especially the UBE Halaya is really good and a must-try. All told, for P75 you really get one of the best deal.

We ended the day with a promise to be back next week with Our Little Sis Eca before the stork delivers her first born....

Our First Spa-Experience

2010-09-21T03:45:00.000-07:00

A lot have been said and written about pampering yourselves with a body massage from a reputable spa but Hubby and I only had the chance to experience it a couple of weeks ago when a dear friend gave us GC's for our wedding. We've always wanted to use it after My Big Day but we had a thousand and things to do until the GC expired. Good thing the people from Urban Escape Day Spa were kind enough to extend it for another week so we had the chance to have a blissful and relaxing moment.

Over-all, the experience was superb and we promise to come back soon once our schedule and budget permits......

To my kapatid Bel, Thanks again for the wonderful gift !

There are good days.... And not so good days....

2010-09-17T03:12:00.000-07:00

Its dark outside, the sun has finally bid goodbye for the day as the moon and stars slowly make their way ... here I am watching my Princess doze off after almost an hour of handling her tantrums... (you know how todlers are when they try to fight off sleep)... and hubby is being consistent, throwing a tantrum as well just like his copy cat so i shooed him away to sleep.

Times like this make me sad.... I dont know why but i feel like going out of the house, go to the nearest mall, stroll, order pasta and ice cream and just be myself just for an hour or two... Or better yet, head off to the nearest spa and have a massage.... But that's wishful thinking specially if you're trying your best to stretch your finances to the next payday which is still a week away.....

So here I am with my "nini" in my lap, pouring out my thoughts as i sit beside my sleeping princess ..... I know its not one of my best nights but i guess i'm still lucky i get this time for myself and watch my Little Girl in an "ordinary/boring way".

I wouldn't trade places with a colleague who is watching close his Son in the hospital fighting off the dengue disease which I am confident that He will bounce back to recovery soon with all our love and prayers.....

Or be in the shoes of a Friend who holds a high position and receives probably triple or quadraple of what i get monthly but is faced with tons of stress and problems in her workplace which i'm sure she'll be able to surpass with flying colors and chin held high....

Or be like My Carefree Friend living a fast paced and comfortable life but not really sure what she's after, what will really make her happy and content .....

I know its been said a lot of times that we should count Our Blessings and not fret or whine for things we dont have.... So let me end this entry with a pat on my little Princess' cheek while still watching her sleep and a conclusion that there are good days and there are "not so good days".... and let this be one of those days......

MY JULIA'S ACHIEVEMENT

2010-09-16T04:27:00.000-07:00

Hubby came home last Tuesday beaming with a big smile as he held out Our little Princess' Certificate along with her Report Card. Honestly, we werent expecting she'll be receiving anything since she's been absent lately due to illness but I guess she realy "has it". So proud and happy, I posted it right away for all to see. I know we're just on our first year of education and still has 2 decades to go but in the meantime, let us enjoy this milestone because she trully deserves it.

ON THE ROAD TO RECOVERY ...

2010-09-04T05:48:00.000-07:00

So glad and thankful that My Little Julia is on her way to recovery after suffering from fever, rashes and mouth sores. And I am relieved when her pedia explained what she is going thru (Hand, Foot and Mouth Disease in Children), a viral disease which usually affects children below 5 years old .Nothing serious although of course, you wouldnt want your Little One experience any pain or discomfort. If you can only spare them from such ordeal.

Anyway, so happy that she is slowly bouncing back and on the way to recovery. She can now finish off a KFC one-pc chicken order and/or rounds of dinner..... She is also back in her "kulit and kalat" ways with her toys all over the floor.

Hopefully in a day or two everything will be back to normal again...... And I can really say goodbye to this ugly Viral Disease !

Worried About My Princess....

2010-09-02T20:13:00.000-07:00

My Little Julia is still not in the pink of health and i'm really worried about it. Aside from being cranky , she lost her appetite and couldnt eat anything excepta half bowl of noodles.... she lost a lot of weight already and if this will continue on, we might end up in the hospital huhuhu.....

I'll do anything and everything just to take the pain away...Hope she'll get well soon

MY PRINCESS IS SICK ... huhuhu

2010-08-29T04:19:00.000-07:00

This morning had to rush home from work for my daughter who is down w/fever with a temp of 39.4 ... Good thing my boss was kind and understanding enough to let me go home after just rendering 3 hrs of work. The drive home felt so long when in fact it took me arnd 2o mins given it was Sunday.

Having a sick daughter is one of the worst thing every mom goes through. If only you can spare her from all the pain in the world, you'll gladly do it... but life doesnt work that way. I am just hoping and praying after tonight, everything will be back to normal again, so my little Princess can sing and dance till late at night, singing all the barney songs she so loved.

I know its going to be a long night for me, hubby and Julia... but we're keeping our fingers crossed we can kick off this fever by tomorrow !!!

Turning Down Opportunities

2010-08-26T06:22:00.000-07:00

A couple of days ago i was excited about a possible writing job with an independent group. After series of calls from said independent group and from friends, and after giving it a serious thought, i've decided to turn down the opportunity so not to jeopardize my "comeback".

Sad that after a five-year hiatus I've realized that some things havent changed at all, that you have to dance to the network's music to survive. People are still as possessive and can be demanding. I'm just holding on to the thought that i'll be working with friends again and that makes my decision to stay worth while.

Writing Possibilities

2010-08-19T19:24:00.000-07:00

Yesterday got a surprise call from a production house asking if i would be interested in a writing job with them and if i can drop by their office for an interview. At first I was apprehenssive because its been a more than five years since i've been asked for a job interview.

More than anything, I am thankful for the possibilities of writing again.... First with ABS-CBN my original network with friends,.... and if that doesnt work, glad to know that I have friends as well in the other network offering other options.

I am not sure what have i done to deserve this second chance in writing, I guess somebody Up there heard my prayer. And I am really thankful and happy.

Now making something out of this possibilities is another story which literally and figuratively. A story which i have to write well in order to deserve these blessings from above.

NINI ..MY NEW " BABY"

2010-08-15T06:01:00.000-07:00

People say Friday the 13th is an unlucky day.... but I refused to believe because that was the day I got my new baby... NINI ... A Neo basic netbook that i can use as i revive my writing career. I am really grateful for having friends who are always there to help me physically, emotionally and even financially in pursuing my dreams.

For now i'm still toying and thinkering around my new tool, trying to get used to it and enjoying every minute of it...:)

Writing and Adrenalin Rush ...

2010-08-12T05:52:00.000-07:00

Its been half a decade since i last felt this... the adrenalin rush when you are writing and trying to beat the deadline. Your mind is going crazy, as you strike the keyboards overtime while your heart pounds loudly as you try to finish everything on one go!. its a crazy but addictive feeling .... but honestly i felt happy after typing the last sentence because it felt so familiar and comfortable.... I know i'm rambling and ranting, and what i'm saying may not make any sense .... I guess what i'm trying to say is, once a writer, will always be a writer !!!!

VXI BAZAAR ... A FUN & PRODUCTIVE ADVENTURE

2010-07-25T08:56:00.000-07:00

Last weekend some high school friends and I had a chance to try our hand in the "Tiangge" world by participating in a 3-day bazaar. Although it was tiring, the experience was worth it. We are planning to make a career out of it and eventually open our own formal business. In the meantime, we're taking things one step at a time and enjoying every minute of it !

Strike Anywhere ...

2010-07-15T07:40:00.000-07:00

I took Julia to Trinoma this afternoon after school for our usual " mall dates" and wait for hubby. However, after a few bites of Chicken Joy, she decided to doze off the afternoon in one of the couches in Jollibee Trinoma. For an hour, i watched her sleep and upto now couldnt help but be amazed on how big she has grown... Holding her in my arms still gives me joy and happiness, just like what i felt 4 1/2 years ago when she came in this world.

I know in 5 to 10 years time, my Little Princess will have a different life to live but as of the moment, she's still my little Baby sleeping in Mommy's Arms

Celebrating Life ....

2010-07-09T08:14:00.000-07:00

I have been so stressed out the past few days over our financial status that i forgot to count my blessings, It was only when i turned a listening ear to the people around me did i began to realize how minute/trivial my problems are. As my close friend would often tell me when i worry/fret about money, " pera lang yan... kikitain mo rin yan..."

So today , after getting a " Little Blessing From Above" I've decided to Celebrate Life with My Hubby and Princess with a simple dinner. Consider it as a Kick-Off Celebration for a better and brighter future ahead.

Uncomfortable Truth

2010-07-07T21:44:00.000-07:00

I know its been said that the Truth shall set you free... but when you're caught in between one of the closest people in your life about an uncomfortable truth, how do you react? You cant take sides especially if the aggrieving party admits that its their fault. All you can do is listen and pray that even though it may take to forgive, eventually they'll find in their hearts to do so and try to start anew....

Working On My Financial Plan

2010-07-07T07:34:00.000-07:00

I bought this book more than three (3) years as a guide to handle my finances but i never get to practice it... So today, while waiting for my Princess finish school, i picked up the book again and decided to give it another shot. I am hoping that this time, i'll be able to put it into practice and be financially stable in the coming years !

Stretching Resources and Patience 'till Payday

2010-07-04T08:58:00.000-07:00

After a couple months , here I am again, feeling the stress and pressure on how to make ends meet until the next payday. I guess every Wives, Moms or Partners go through this stage until you've master the art of budgeting or you finally grab the Lotto Jackpot.

Though admittedly, the stress more often than not, gets the best of me I know I am still blessed for having family and friends aroudn willing to extend help....

Hopefully in a couple of weeks i'll be able to free myself from this "monthly quicksand..." until then i'm hopeful that i can manage and stretch everything until the much awaited payday...

Its Now Official .... Welcome to the Married Life !!!

2010-06-14T17:51:00.001-07:00

Its Official, I have added another title before my name.... MRS ! To family and friends, it's long-overdue since hubby and I have been living together for five (5) years now. Nothing much changed, except that I have to get used to being called Mrs Marino and start practicing my new signature. Or make sure I wear the "ring" and never take it off for all to see.

Walking down the aisle for the first time was a different story. I could barely remember what really happened while i march because my Little Bride Julia left me and ran to the arms of his waiting Daddy....

But all told, it was a fun-filled moment... and truly, we are now One... At Long Last !

Hearts Day and Chinese New Year 2010

2010-02-22T01:45:00.001-08:00

For the first time, we celebrated Valentine's Day with a Chinese Dinner in the nearby Wan Chai Resto and strolled around Ayala Techno Hub after... I should say, this is the best Valentine's Day Celebration I've ever had :)

Birthday 2010

2010-02-22T01:37:00.000-08:00

The family had a grand time eating @ Giligan's Trinoma for my 37th Birthday. Good food and the best company ever (Benjie, Julia and our Ache Rose ) .... What more can you ask for ???

Sunday Afternoon @ TechnoHub

2010-01-31T05:13:00.000-08:00

We finally found time to take Julia to TechnoHub this afternoon for a sunday treat and we really had a great time. I know we should do this more often as a family, its a great bonding time and stress reliever. Surely, we'll be back @ TechnoHub to try out other restos !

Enjoying My Sat Morning..

2010-01-22T18:53:00.000-08:00

I woke up late this morning and for the first time in sooo many years, i overslept. It's so weird coz I'm not used to sleeping eight (8) anymore, so you could just imagine how my body is reacting . Anyway, i had my cup of coffee and hopefully, the caffeine will kick in any moment now.

I'm waiting for my Little Princess to wake up so we can start the day... in the meantime, I'm enjoying the peace and quiet aura, just hearing the chipping of the birds as i type in my journal and crave for another cup of coffee.

Im not really sure what to write... just random thoughts I guess... Its been a while since i started writing again. I miss writing scripts/stories and the adrenalin rush in beating deadlines. I'm not really sure if i'll be blessed again to have a chance in writing but who knows.... I'm planning to start my screenplay soon so i can submit it to Palanca Contest which is long overdue. Sad that my story didnt make it to Cinemalaya, but who knows, i might get a chance with this one. Still keeping my fingers crossed. For now, let me start by blogging again.

Last night we had a treat ! We finally got our tax refund, and although it wasnt much, Benjie and I are still grateful for the blessings and decided to celebrate it with a steak and ice cream ! Sinful for someone desperately trying to loose weight , but what the heck ! we deserve it by working hard the whole year round. Too bad didnt think of taking pix coz we're so hungry. Hopefully next time, i'll be able to document everything to savor the moment!

Well, this post is getting to be a long one .... guess time to sign off and back up all my files which was my original intention when i turned on my laptop...hehehehe

till next entry !!!!

I Miss Writing ...

2010-01-20T02:19:00.000-08:00

Saw old pictures of colleagues from the previous world (ABS CBN) and i suddenly miss writing... its been almost five years since i last tried saw my by line .... I guess its about time i pull out my pen and start scribbling again .... I promised myself I'll finish my screenplay this year ...... My One last hurrah !!!!!

My Little "Big " Princess

2009-12-21T18:36:00.000-08:00

Funny how time really flies so fast...... My Little Princess has grown big already who just turned four (4) yesterday. Hubby and I are just remisnicing how we managed to overcome the first couple of months/years caring for this little bundle of joy. Now we watch in awe as she sings Bahay Kubo and Leron Leron Sinto with Gusto ! In a few years , she'll grow up as a young lady and will have different concerns but in the mean time we try to enjoy every waking moment with her.

My Time....for an Hour

2009-10-21T00:51:00.000-07:00

Today is the first day of my sked rest day for the week and I'm having a great time in front of my laptop, trying to set up my new "raket" by updating my multiply account....

More than anything else, I really enjoy this "My Time Hour...." meaning i get to drop the Mom/Partner Role on the Side for an hour or two so I can do things for myself. I know it may sound selfish but dont get me wrong, this "My Time" thing keeps me sane :)

An a few minutes my little princess will wake up from her Nap or Hubby will be up and about asking about all minute details in the household but for the meantime, let me explore the net and have a quiet time in front of my beloved laptop !!!!!

When Kids Get Sick ...

2009-10-17T17:34:00.000-07:00

Yesterday when we got home from work, my little Princess was down with a slight fever.. so we wasted no time and tried to give her medicine which was really an extra challenge for me, her daddy and yaya bec she never liked drinking medicines. It took 3 adults (2 to hold her and 1 to give her meds using a dropper) to finally give her a small dose of paracetamol... But the whole night the fever was still on and off. I was really teary eyed while holding her and listen to her breathing as she slept in my arms and despite the temp, she never complained or whined , only when it was medicine time. All throughout, i was begging for the fever to go away or "just give it to mommy" to spare her from the illness. True, when kids get sick you would really hope and pray that whatever pain can just be passed on to the adult and let the little be in pink health....

its 8:40am and my little one is still sound asleep by my side ... her temp has gone down to a normal level but i'm not taking my chances and still keeping an eye . The good thing abt this is I get to spend the whole day with her ...

Hot Wheels....

2009-10-14T00:17:00.000-07:00

We took Julia to the mall yesterday and to buy her girlie stuff however, it seems her mind was on something else... And No, we didnt' bother to buy the "hot wheels" coz they costs P10,000 and P15,000 respectively ..huhuhuh :(

Waiting for the Big One

2009-10-02T06:07:00.000-07:00

A week ago we were caught unprepared by typhoon Ondoy.... before we know it, most of the houses were already submerged underwater and had no choice but to deal with the situation. Now, another typhoon looms the area and all we can do is hope and pray that it takes a different path to spare us from another "wet weekend".....

Just like any moms, i did my best to cover all the household stuff enough to survive until Monday just to be sure and tried to cover all the basses. Although one can never be prepared for the Big One , I believe nothing is impossible with the power of Prayer.... If you think about it, if there are 10Million Filipinos saying a special prayer to drive away typhoon Pepe.... then maybe , just maybe that will make Pepe go away and leave us Safe and sound...

After The Storm....

2009-09-27T05:08:00.000-07:00

For 24 hours we witness the downpour of Storm Ondoy and placed the whole Metro Manila underwater. I am fortunate enough to have a home in a higher and stable location although the streets leading to my place is waist deep underwater. I was worried sick because Hubby is stuck in the office but at least I know he's safe and sound. And after watching the video clips in the news today, i couldnt help but be teary eyed and affected by others who were on their rooftops for hours, waiting for someone to rescue them. I know after Storm Ondoy, things will never be the same. I just hope we Filipinos will learn our lesson to take care of our environment so we wont have second servings of "ondoy's wrath..."

Just For the Money !

2009-09-24T04:42:00.000-07:00

Amazed on how People can take advantage of others. The car conk out in the middle of Katipunan Flyover. Lo a& behold, wrecker comes to pull the car to the nearest gas station and asked Benjie P1900. Buti na lang bolero si Hubby and promised to pay her P1200 later in McDo Katips so she can pocket the money. Eventually she believed hubby and let him drive away.....

Keep the Pen Moving

2009-09-10T14:41:00.000-07:00

Started writing again after a few years of silence.... and God knows how much i miss that feeling..... Funny thing is before i finally drafted my treatment I have been having dreams about by colleagues in ABS-CBN, people whom i havent seen for a couple of years so I took it as sign to finish my story and take the big leap. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that I still have the writer's touch.

Connecting with old friends

2009-09-10T14:23:00.000-07:00

So happy I found a connection to an old college friend whom i havent seen for almost 20 years now. He was my best buddy and confidante during my freshman year until we had to part ways to avoid problems with his lovelife.... Looking back now i'm sure we'll have a great time laughing about it. I remember the "asaran-kulitan" days, the long jeepney ride home from UST to QC, and the greasy food in the canteen during break time. Funny how good old memories start gushing through when you finally find a connection with old friends.

Welcome back Gochac !!!!

HOLDING ON

2009-08-24T08:48:00.000-07:00

Felt bad things didnt work out with TABS buyer.... just when you thought everything is falling into place, a major glitch comes along the way...... I hope i can come up with something soon ... otherwise it may be too late....

CRUNCH TIME

2009-08-22T22:42:00.000-07:00

Its a week before payday and everybody's seemed to be scrapping their barrels just to make ends meet.... I know how it feels because it seems i've been playing this game for ages now. Although most often than not, we barely make it , i have one important realization.... That every crunch time, the Lord's hand moves in mysterious way and helps us stretch things until we reach the finish line.... and prepare for the next race again

STRESSFULL WEEKEND

2009-08-15T17:50:00.000-07:00

I hate it when you dont get to enjoy the weekend because of a very stressful event. You're so stressed that you tend to bark at anything and everything to get in your way... even the smallest things like what happened to me and hubby the past few days. We were so disappointed and angry about how dirty our enemies can play and had to shell out quite a sum of money just for piece of paper that "would give you temporary liberty" when in fact you were victimized by these bastards. But despite this unfortunate incident, we still manage to look at the bright side and thankful that the Good Lord Above never left our side... true we were out of pockets by a huge amount (thousands of pesos is no joke for hardworking people) but at least the problem came when we had the means to resolve it and we were given ample time to resolve it otherwise, we could be facing bigger obstacles to hurdle.

As our lawyer put it, expect dirty tricks like these to come out of the hat (although we are hoping this is the end of it) but as long as we have the Big Boss on our side and family and friends to help out, we are positive we can win this battle in flying colors....

Well, getting even is different story....

JOLOGS THEORY IN ACTION

2009-08-12T07:31:00.000-07:00

This Afternoon the Jologs Theory was seen in action as I was able to Help a dear friend Tina find a reasonable OB for her upcoming delivery in a few weeks time thru the help of another friend Bora.... What's so interesting is they do not know each other and yet they were able to connect thru me. As Tina mentioned in her text earlier, she already claimed that she's a friend of Bora so the OB can extend her generosity and kindness to her.... At the end of the day i was so happy for Tina because i knew somehow i was able to solve one problem for her and help her gain a new friend....

So continue to spread the love and touch other people's lives... Mabuhay ang mga Jologs !!!!

TABS... MY DREAM CAR

2009-08-08T04:33:00.000-07:00

Yup... this was my dream car (well next to a red volkswagen) which i was able to purchase early 2000 from our daders... i really love this car... lots of memories as well (sad and happy ones at that !!!!) .... we are hoping someday i can hand this over to our little princess.... teach her how to drive this "little mean machine" the same way i taught his daddy almost four years ago....

INTO FB.....

2009-08-01T06:28:00.001-07:00

Just like millions of Filipinos today, I too have been addicted to Facebook.... the reason why i haven't been blogging for the past months.... sure its fun to see what's happening with your friends and loved ones, and posting pix is a big plus but FB doesnt give you enough space to post your thoughts. And i have to admit, i never liked the games and surveys which i feel is just a waste of time and space. So after few months into FBing, I found my wayback into my blogsite .... so expect more writing... and of course more pix and more updates of this journey of mine :)

How to Eat Yakisoba ...

2009-08-01T04:49:00.000-07:00

In this gloomy weather, my princess and I are stuck in the house with nothing much to do except eat yakisoba.... and guess what, she liked it !!!!!

Back To School

2009-05-27T19:14:00.001-07:00

In the midst of our legal battle, our lawyer Rene (a good friend of my brothers ) have inspired me to consider taking up law especially when he commented " I should pursue law bec I can be one hell of lawyer".

Taking up law is one of my frustrations.... being a daddy's girl of one of the great corporate lawyers Philippines has ever had (daddy was former sec chairman during my highschool .days) I've imagined following his footsteps but along the way i got sidetracked and pursued writing instead. From time to time this idea crossed my mind but i usually brush it off because i need to earn a bachelor's degree first before i could step into the halls of college of law. So that would mean another year or two in college. And to make things more complicated, it was 14 years ago when i graduated from Miriam with an Associate Degree so i do need a lot of catching up to do.

Yesterday while browsing thru the net i toyed with the idea of going back to school thru open university and started doing research, and luckily came across with PUP's open university program. I wasted no time and gave them a call and guess what, i'm scheduled for an interview next week to evaluate my credentials. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that i can go back to school soon and who knows, a couple of years from now, i'll be signing off with a prefixed/title "ATTY before my name to boast!

JULIA IN THE RAIN

2009-05-26T22:32:00.000-07:00

Took advantage of the rains and took Julia outside to experience a quick shower in the rain. At first she was uncomfortable and hesistant but once she got the hang of it, she was literraly singing in the rain.... Good thing her dad is in the office otherwise, we wont be able to enjoy this moment !

Sarap talagang maligo sa ulan :)

Wheel of Justice in the Philippines... A True Test of Patience

2009-05-26T22:21:00.000-07:00

Last Monday, we drove 2 hours and a half for our NLRC hearing to submit our position paper which our lawyer and I drafted carefully and tediously. We couldnt wait to hand over said document to our "enemies" see the look on their face especially when they finally see the smart certification. But we were disappointed because after an hour of waiting, they didnt show up and had the hearing rescheduled two weeks after. So we had no choice but to drive back home for 2 more hours......

Indeed the justice system here in our country will truly test one's patience and pockets. We are hoping that this battle will end soon and victory will be ours !!!

JULIA IN JEANS

2009-05-26T22:14:00.000-07:00

After 3 and a half years, we finally had my daughter wear jeans for the first time (courtesy of her Tita/Mommy Kathy ) . We usually have her wear skirts or shorts since its easier to put and more comfy. Benjie and I were so proud seeing her in maong and both commented ... " dalaga na ang prinsesa namin !!!"

THANKFUL FOR SMALL VICTORIES

2009-05-22T17:44:00.000-07:00

For a year now, we've been carrying on a legal battle versus Benjie's former employer, 22nd St. Its been a long, tedious and not to mention expensive battle. (good thing our lawyer is a good friend of my bro and havent charged us anything yet) Admittedly, that one year has been one big roller coaster ride for both of us, mixture of emotions for both benjie and i ... there were days that we felt angry, disappointed and frustrated but we never stopped hoping and praying that one day this will end victoriously for us.... and we know slowly, we will get there.

Yesterday we scored another small victory when we finally received a Certification from Smart Legal Dept... a documentation we've been trying to secure for more than six months now. We tried several times requesting this from smart wireless center but we were always denied. Finally, as our last and desperated attempt, we tried to pull strings but asking all family and friends for people they know in the legal dept who could help us out. Luckily my sis in law Kathy had a friend who used to work for smart gave us the first lead...... And another schoolmate way back highschool days, Pam whom i havent seen or talk to for almost 20 years now gave us another lead.... Although we were not able to touch base with the people they referred, we were able to contact Ms Patti Aznar of legal department who was kind enough to assist us and finally issued us the much needed certification that will hopefully end our legal battle. For me, these are special angels sent by Above to help us out during these trying times. We wouldn't have gotten this vital document without the help of these friends.

I know its still a long way to go but now we are more confident that we can wrap up all the legal battles triumphantly and live a more quiet and secured life ahead....

And lastly.... God is really good.... in all ways, always !!!!!

PAYDAY TREAT

2009-05-16T18:38:00.000-07:00

Last payday I did something for myself for a change... went to Taco Bell and decided to treat myself for working hard for couple of days. So I ordered their Mexican Pizza and cheesy potatoes for a quick merienda. Although i went a little overboard with my budget i left the resto with a smile and I promise that i should do this more often ... Reward myself for a job well done .

SPECIAL MOMS ...

2009-05-09T18:27:00.000-07:00

Mother's Day have always been a big event for everybody and I dont blame them. For people close to me, they all know that my mom and I are like oil and water but over the years i have mellowed down especially when i became a mom as well. True, there's nothing like being a mom.... you have to be strong to overcome the challenges , yet you have to be gentle to show how much you love your offspring. Being a Mom is a full time job, no subs, no overtime pays or no VL but none the less, its the most rewarding job of all.

In my 36 years of existence, i am lucky enough to be touched by my "Special Moms" who have helped me become what I am today. These are the mothers who were there to guide me when I felt down and lost and never left my side.... and I offer this special day to them....

NANAY HERMIE AXALAN....

Who saw me grow up literally and figuratively along with her daughter, Ate Paz. Their family easily welcomed me in their household when i had problems in the homefront and when i came to their daughter crying in black and blue... (God that was almost 20 years ago!) I stayed with them for almost a month free of charge and later on moved to their apartments and still consider this abode my home for almost a decade now. Nanay have always been very understanding and supportive. To Nanay, thank you for giving me a home to stay with ...

TITA A

My Mother, My mentor.... i wouldn't have fulfilled my dream in seeing my name in the screen without the help of this remarkable lady. The Gabriella Silang of ABS CBN, she is always there whenever you need someone to lean on and need some sense to put in your head. Although she has her own battles to fight on her own, just call or text her and she'll always be there to be your "resbak". My discipline and writing skills are honed by this great writer and i thank her that.... nevermind the long and gruelling brainstorming sessions in her attic, the never ending arguements and crying sessions.... in the end it paid off. And although i am no longer active in the writing scene.... i still proud and happy that i grew up under her wing.

MS SHAI

This is my cool Mom and Mentor. Ms Shai's gentle and loving ways have touched my heart and my life deeply. Just like Tita A, what i am right now as a Writer and as a person is a fushion of their influence and loving ways. My five year stint with ABS was full hardwork, laughter and happy memories because of these wonderful moms.

ATE ELLEN ...

My First EP.... unlike the Ms Shai and Tita A, Ate Ellen is the quiet and gentle Mom every daughter would love to have. Ever patient and understanding, she'll just smile or give out a gentle laughter when she's happy , or cry a tear or two whenever things dont go as planned. I've worked with her for almost 4 years in different shows and i have witnessed how loving and care Mom she is to her three beautiful daughters... I know Ate Ellen is going through a though time right now and i'm always saying a special prayer for her. I hope she'll have the best Mother's Day Celebration today because she truly Deserves it.

ATE SONIA CRISOSTOMO

One remarkable friend/lady i have known and i will be forever grateful for her overflowing love and generosity. She is always there for me during our struggling days as a writer. Through thick and thin, she was there. I just hope she's okay and i truly miss her.

TITA NILS
Although technically, she isn't a mom (yet !) but she's been like a mother to me and to all her pamangkins during our growing up years. She's the cool and understanding mom i had during my growing up years :)

ATE PAZ

My dear sister, friend, confidante, partner in crime (hehehe) .... technically now that she's a mom too, this day is also dedicated to you. I love you Ate Paz, and i'm looking forward to seeing you again so we can talk and have coffee until the wee hours of the morning.

Eight (8) Years After

2009-05-06T21:07:00.000-07:00

Today marks a Special Day for Me and Benjie because it our 8th Year Anniversary. Well honestly, we were never into anniversaries , neither did we get a chance to celebrate it but nevertheless, i couldnt help but smile and be awed that we lasted this long and still going strong despite the obstacles and challenges. All my close friends know that our relationship is "not your ordinary love story" and admittedly the first couple of years were really shaky but we manage to survive and be strong. And with little Julia in the center of our lives, that makes the relationship more special.

Here Comes the Rain Again......

2009-05-06T20:51:00.000-07:00

For people in the 80's era, you're familiar with this Song I'm sure... i usually sing a line or two whenever the rains (or should i say typhoons) invades the Phil Area of Responsibility as PAGASA would often say....

I never liked the rains coz it makes me sad.... i dont know why but there's something with the rains that make my day sad and gloomy especially now that i'm off for a couple of days, i dont have much choice but to stay home. my little princess and i cant even go out for short walks to the grocery...huhuhu.... so in the meantime, here we are stuck inside the house, doing barney marathon and wishing the rains would stop and just horsing around.....

let me end this blog with one of barney's popular song....

"Mr Sun... Sun.. Mr Golden sun... hiding behind the Tree ..
Wont you come down and shine... shine down on me... "

This is What Rest Day Is All About

2009-04-02T06:47:00.000-07:00

Last weekend we got the chance to stay at home and enjoy our rest days with our little princess. This is what Benjie and I look forward to after working hard for five straight days

Kape at Pandesal.. the perfect breakfast

2009-03-08T07:41:00.000-07:00

Yup, you read it right... this for me is one of the perfect breakfast, kape at pandesal . And i have to admit, i couldnt help but dip the pandesal in my coffee. You should try it sometimes ... its perfect !

Chicken Joy !!!

2009-03-08T07:30:00.000-07:00

Yup, this is Julia's newest fave... everytime she sees chicken on the table (grilled or fried) she would always say Jollibee.... so last weekend we decided to give in to her desires and really had fun watching her munch the chicken away...

Get Together

2009-02-23T02:56:00.000-08:00

Its been almost two decades since we last saw each other (HighSchool Graduation to be exact) so when we had a chance to get together for a dinner of fun and chicka, we gamely said yes. We had a lot of fun exchanging stories and tips.... and couldnt believe its been years since we were together. So when we parted ways we promised to keep in touch and see each other in a more regular basis.

Something to Look Forward To

2009-01-30T16:40:00.000-08:00

The past few weeks, my hubby joined thousands of Filipinos trying their luck looking for a job. And if you follow the news, you know that everyday the unemployment rate gets bigger and bigger... Each day was a challenge... days when he comes home down and frustrated because you could almost feel that you're in until they give you the "thank you for applying speech."

But finally, after weeks of trying, hardwork, patience and deligence , he will now start working on Feb 3 in the same company i work for but on a different account. Both of us are proud, excited and at the same time a bit nervous. Its like starting a new school during your younger years. We are just thankful for this new beginning ....

And with this, we know good things are about to come our way... something to look forward to this year of the Ox :)

Yearender 2008,,,,, Part 2

2009-01-19T01:46:00.000-08:00

The Year 2008 ended with simple celebration with family and friends..... here are some snapshots of said events.

The Year That Was... 2008

2008-12-30T17:37:00.000-08:00

I was supposed to publish this post yesterday but i was having problems with my inet connections .... so instead of being a year ender post, let this be my first blog for the year 2009 ... A New Year, a new beginning ... the year that passed was not a very good year... a lot of challenges, problems and tears came our way but we managed to survive... and the bonus part is we have gained true and loyal friends, valuable learnings and the fact that we are surrounded with much love by the people around. Indeed these are the best weapon one can have to welcome a new year .

And so as I bid goodbye to 2008 .. let me list down the highlights of the year that was....

1. Overnight Stay in Discovery Suites during my Birthday.

2. Our first out of town trip in Bulacan.

3. Got promoted but resigned from the position after a few months

4 Our labor problem/case with 22nd

5. Opening of our Canteen that lasted for 6 months

6. Mayeeh's wedding

7. Start up Keai Ora

and

8. Fun and quality family time with Benjie and our little Julia.

Julia's 3rd Birthday

2008-12-27T02:25:00.000-08:00

Last Sunday was a special day for our little princess, Julia as she turned big Three! We had a simple get together with fellow celebrant cousin Fiona (who turned 5 as well). Both girls had fun playing with their cousins. And of course, Julia enjoyed her gifts from well wishers as Mommy and Daddy took pictures of her.

Early Christmas Gift

2008-12-17T02:24:00.000-08:00

I decided to give my hubby and my princess a special gift this Christmas.... a local dvd player that would read all our pirated dvd so we can do a dvd marathon anytime....

And look who got excited with what Santa brought them a week an half early .... :)

View from the Top

2008-12-08T02:09:00.000-08:00

Last Sunday, while in the middle of the call i suddenly grabbed my phone and took a picture of the view from the window where i am sitting... It was literally a breath taking view... a welcome breather from all the calls i'm taking especially on a Sunday while everybody else is watching boxing.... and one thing that made me smile is the thought that how lucky I am to have view like this and to think that i'm far from being an executive...

so for now.. let me just enjoy the view to ward off my mind from calls and the "not so good" people around :)

Deadline Jitters

2008-12-04T04:03:00.000-08:00

For the past weeks i have been writing this "special project"... and as always, i crammed until the very last minute... (and calling in sick half of the day so i can beat the deadline).. For a while there i got scared that i might have lost my touch being away for almost 5 years in the writing industry.... but when the adrenalin rush came in.. i started writing away and couldnt believe what i wrote.. I cant say much, yet... but in time hopefully you'll be able to see my work again..I'm keeping my fingers crossed and saying a special prayer that this project will push through

Christmas Giveaways..

2008-12-04T03:55:00.000-08:00

This year we're offering a different Christmas giveaway.. its our very special Laing at an affordable price... The food is great, promise ! Its Benjie's specialty and we are hoping one day we can make this a big thing!!!

For orders ... just call, txt or email me...

Happy Holidays